I recently finished Family Driven Faith by Voddie Baucham. This book is like a punch to the gut of modern American Christianity. If you have ever heard of Voddie Baucham before I'm sure you are aware of his ability to "tell it like it is". This book is pretty controversial, but a lot of exposure of Biblical Truth goes on within its pages.
Voddie challenges fathers to step up and take their roles as leader of their households. More than just "taking charge", fathers should be spiritual leaders that disciple their children well, lead their families in worship, and teach their families and others to approach life with a Biblical worldview.
I recommend this book to all professing Christians (it is not written just to men), though be prepared to be challenged far beyond the norm. In the words of Voddie: "If you can't say Amen, you ought to say ouch!"